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婚后一月闹离婚,门当户对很重要?

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<p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
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mso-fareast-mso-fareast-theme-mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-">故事是的主人公是自由恋爱的,在一起已经有五六年时间,期间分过一次,因为女的想去国外留学,后面没有去成。同居也有一两年,上个月完成了摆酒仪式,最近女的想闹离婚。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
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<p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
mso-fareast-mso-fareast-theme-mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-">俩人背景是这样的:</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
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<p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
mso-fareast-mso-fareast-theme-mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-">双方的家庭经济实力其实差不多,而且双方父母本来就认识,但是家庭背景不一样(所以婚后女的说和她老公三观不合),女的家庭是从商的,她学历不高,后来也选择了跟家人从商,目前赚钱比男的多。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
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<p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
mso-fareast-mso-fareast-theme-mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-">男的是高学历人才,在大城市的公职行业,收入月工资一万多,但是拿的是死工资,没女的那么大起大落。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
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<p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
mso-fareast-mso-fareast-theme-mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-">现在婚后女的闹得很凶,说男的不关心她,和她很多观点不相符,想闹离婚。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
mso-fareast-mso-fareast-theme-mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-">具体导火线我也不知道,但是我的分析是:</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;</span></p><p class="MsoNormal" align="left"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><div class="title-9" role="wrap"><p class="role" role="input">​可能的原因:</p><div><br></div><p></p></div><p></p>

<p class="MsoListParagraph" style="
mso-char-indent-count:0;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span lang="EN-US">1,<span>&nbsp; </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
mso-fareast-mso-fareast-theme-mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-">婚前对于婚姻的期待,婚后回归后现实生活,柴米油盐酱醋茶后就会感到失落。但是其实无论你与谁结婚,最后要面对的都是生活中的点点滴滴。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="
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<p class="MsoListParagraph" style="
mso-char-indent-count:0;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span lang="EN-US">2,<span>&nbsp; </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
mso-fareast-mso-fareast-theme-mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-">情感和经济因素的争吵。婚后,双方对于对象的选择已经尘埃落定了,回归到两人的情感和生活中的经济因素,就会产生矛盾和分歧。所以多交流和两人合理安排好家庭的开支。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="
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<p class="MsoListParagraph" style="
mso-char-indent-count:0;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo1"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span lang="EN-US">3,<span>&nbsp; </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
mso-fareast-mso-fareast-theme-mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-">出现了新的追求者。在婚后,可能出现了新的追求者,追求者激起了好奇感和新鲜感,而且追求者在开始时期总是充满了关心和温柔,所以会有一种错觉,我的老公或者老婆给不了我这样的感觉。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p>

<p class="MsoListParagraph" style="mso-char-indent-count:
0"><span lang="EN-US">&nbsp;</span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="mso-char-indent-count:
0"><span lang="EN-US"><br></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="mso-char-indent-count:
0"><span lang="EN-US"></span></p><div class="title-9" role="wrap"><p class="role" role="input" >​如何解决:</p><div><br></div><p></p></div><p></p>

<p class="MsoListParagraph" style="
mso-char-indent-count:0;mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span lang="EN-US">1,<span>&nbsp; </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
mso-fareast-mso-fareast-theme-mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-">回忆恋爱时期的甜蜜。当时的你们是如何相识、相恋到现在的婚姻。一步步走来不容易,真的决定那么轻易的放弃吗?</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="
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<p class="MsoListParagraph" style="
mso-char-indent-count:0;mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span lang="EN-US">2,<span>&nbsp; </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
mso-fareast-mso-fareast-theme-mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-">制造浪漫,重温甜蜜。比如在房间点燃蜡烛,比如赠送鲜花,比如一句甜言蜜语,给对方一个“被在乎”的感受。在乎不是只存在心里的,而是需要行动表达的。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="
mso-char-indent-count:0;mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2"><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
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<p class="MsoListParagraph" style="
mso-char-indent-count:0;mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span lang="EN-US">3,<span>&nbsp; </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
mso-fareast-mso-fareast-theme-mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-">心平气和对话。找一个安静的环境,拿一本本子,记录下对方对你的不满和自己内心的感受,对方说话时候你不要插嘴,用心凝听。然后双方共同对提出的问题进行解决。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="
mso-char-indent-count:0;mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2"><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
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<p class="MsoListParagraph" style="
mso-char-indent-count:0;mso-list:l1 level1 lfo2"><!--[if !supportLists]--><span lang="EN-US">4,<span>&nbsp; </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-
mso-fareast-mso-fareast-theme-mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-">写下对未来生活的安排。首先经济上,既然已经成为了夫妻,共同生活在一起,那就应该摊开胸怀来聊彼此的经济问题,如何合理的安排家庭财产,细节到谁负责什么。第二是家庭任务上,也可以做好分工合作。另外对于未来生活的安排,如旅行、备孕等。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="
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<p class="MsoListParagraph" style="mso-char-indent-count:
0"><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-mso-fareast-mso-fareast-theme-
mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-">无论和谁结婚,你都会回归平淡。无论和谁一起,你们都会有分歧。回想一起走过的日子,能走到婚姻,不容易!心平气和坐下来,用心倾听对方。然后从细节上面做起。</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p>

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<p class="MsoListParagraph" style="mso-char-indent-count:
0"><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-mso-fareast-mso-fareast-theme-
mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-">门当户对不一定说的是双方的家庭经济实力,也和双方家庭背景有关,不同的家庭背景会造成俩人的三观不合。但是这俩人也恋爱了五六年才步入婚姻,我也有点不了解。感觉太任性了。</span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="mso-char-indent-count:
0"><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-mso-fareast-mso-fareast-theme-
mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-"><br></span></p><p class="MsoListParagraph" style="mso-char-indent-count:
0"><span style="mso-ascii-mso-ascii-theme-mso-fareast-mso-fareast-theme-
mso-hansi-mso-hansi-theme-">随友们。你们怎么看?</span><span lang="EN-US"><o:p></o:p></span></p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>来源:原创</p><p>作者:邻家小鹿</p><p>声明:版权属于原作者,本文仅代表作者个人观点,不构成投资意见,并不代表本平台立场。文中的论述和观点,敬请读者注意判断。</p>
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